Massages can potentially benefit your health if executed correctly, including helping with aches and pains and recovery after a tough workout - not to mention they can be incredibly relaxing if you’re in the right hands. If you aren’t used to massages, or even if you are but are working with a new massage therapist, it can sometimes be difficult to determine where the line should be drawn, especially when that line is a thin sheet covering your naked body. These reports about Massage Envy raise a lot of questions regarding consent during spa service and what’s normal - and should not be happening - while you get a massage a massage. I would be hard easily, but I was afraid it might get unpleasant, if I'm hard and he is definitely not doing anything more.This is wrong and disturbing on so many levels, but primarily that when you go for a massage, you put yourself into a physically vulnerable position with a stranger - and you’re there to relax and let your guard down. > Do you think that there were just relaxing massage moves or rather signs and tries to get me hard?Īnd, all in all, is that really bad to be hard most of the time during the massage? However, the most arousing was the moment, when he placed his plam gently on my higher thigh, when he was working on another body part at that moment! I was getting semi in that moment, but i was too shy to get rock hard > So, second, how much dick touching is just masagge of legs and when it's getting "flirty"?Īnd then, when i was on my back and he was working on frontal parts, quite a few times he did this 'long' moves that was going from my public area to the neck. Then, when he was working on my back thighs, he was gently brushing my dick (i was getting semi-hard - howeverv in my head, i was trying to Get soft tbh) >So, is initial draping a definite "no-go"? what's correct draping when working on the back itself and torso? Was that anyhow a sign? However, later, when he was working on my back and the front parts, he only covered my ass/dick area. At the beginning, when he was working on my legs, the another half of my body was covered. I've had a massage recently and I need your advice!įirst, i lied next to a prepared towel but he covered me fully. I've had CMTs in high-end 100% professional spas who couldn't do anything remotely sensual, but responded to some quiet grunts and sighs and a little ass-perking by giving me his personal card and saying, "come see me in my private studio." If you are in a professional venue and you get any sense that he might be up for it, you can ask him if he has a private studio that he works out of. But if he's into it, then he'll usually indicate it by brushing your balls or dick while he's working, massage closer to your hole, etc., or "accidentally" brushing your dick on the flip to see if the jostling gets you hard, etc.īut also understand that if he's in a spa facility, with anyone else working there, it may be too dangerous for him career-wise to do anything considered "sensual" or "erotic" so be aware of the situation and don't try to get him to do anything that might cause him problems. He'll know what you're trying to do and while he probably won't be offended, he will just ignore it so as to not cause an embarrassing conflict. If he ignores any of that, then you will just have to resign yourself to the fact that he's not going to do that. * on the flip, again trying to get yourself hard can be a good sign too * you can also arch your back a little to perk up your ass while he's working, that can also be a sign that you're getting into his work on your ass if you can will yourself to get hard, a hard dick would be a sign too * while he's working on your ass, you can do a little grunting or heavier breathing to show you're getting into it. * When he's starting to work on your ass, make sure your cock and balls are down and spread your legs a little so that he'd be able to see them while working on your ass * Tell him that you want attention to your glutes (ass), quads and psoas muscles * Be squeaky clean - freshly showered, wash your nether regions very well, be reasonably well groomed down there (nobody likes rooting through filthy unkempt bushes)
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